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I have observed the misery of my people . . . ;
I have heard their cry. . . .
Indeed, I know their sufferings,
and I have come down to deliver them (Exod 3:7f).


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Dr. Aaron Milavec

I have been wrestling with questions for 32 years.  So, when you entrust me with your question by posting it in the “comment” box below, I will endeavor to answer directly, honestly, and faithfully.   If I cannot answer, I will try to find someone who can do so.
At the end of your question, decide what sort of answer you prefer by ending your question with ?Head, ?Heart, or ?Hist.  This is a shorthand for the following:
?Head=Appeal to my mind.  I want to know the truth.
?Heart=Appeal to my heart.
?Hist=Give me a brief history of the theological and pastoral issues.

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  1. Have you given any kind of thought at all with converting your main web-site into German? I know a several of translaters right here that would help you do it for no cost if you want to make contact with me personally.

  2. Great idea. It warms my heart that you would take this initiative.

    Please begin with the front page, Please ask your translator(s) to aim toward a dynamic translation–one that uses the idioms and habits of speech to which German speakers are accustomed.

    Then I can put it into place and see how many German-reading visitors come to the site. This then can allow us to see whether their is a substantial benefit for German-speakers who, at the moment, are being left out in the cold by my English-language site.


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  5. Thanks for your kind words. Yes, I do plan to allow six months for the blogs here to mature and, then, I will bring them together in an e-book.

    Please send the address of your blog.

    P.S.: Just published this Kindle eBook with
    new book

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  8. My question is in regards to King David and Davidic worship. My understanding is that David operated for a short period of time with his tent and the ark of the covenant, with no animal sacrifice etc, at the same time while the ‘sanctioned’ tabernacle of Moses was operating with its proper rules under the law. My question is if this is true, how did David get away with it? Both under God and under the Jewish law?

  9. Dear Wes,

    I’m not an expert in this area, but I will endeavor to present an informed working start by way of responding to your question.

    #1 Worship of Yahweh prior to David

    In the large picture of things, it must be remembered that, during the time of the patriarchs (2091- 1876 BCE), there were many places for offering sacrifices to Yahweh and that the patriarchs were free to make their offering without a priest. During this epoch, none of the children of Abraham and Sarah were designated as “priests,” and no single place was set aside for sacrifices.

    After the exodus, Moses is commanded by the Lord to install Aaron, his brother, as the first of a line of priests and to set aside the tribe of Levi exclusively for the purpose of assisting the priests in offering fitting worship to Yahweh. Needless to say, Aaron and his sons began gradually to function as priests, but that still does not mean that they were systematically turned to whenever a sacrifice was anticipated (See, e.g., 1 K 3:2). According to Leviticus, sacrifices were to be brought to the “tent of meeting” where the Ark of the Covenant was stored (Leviticus 17:2-4). Here again, this is what came to be, but not necessarily what was routinely practiced.

    The “tent of meeting” was used as another name for the Tabernacle of Moses. However, before the tabernacle was constructed, God met with Moses in a temporary tent of meeting: “Now Moses used to take a tent and pitch it outside the camp some distance away, calling it the ‘tent of meeting.’ Anyone inquiring of the Lord would go to the tent of meeting outside the camp. . . . As Moses went into the tent, the pillar of cloud would come down and stay at the entrance, while the Lord spoke with Moses” (Exodus 33:7, 9). The fact that Moses set up the tent of meeting outside of the camp underscored that the people had broken fellowship with God at Sinai when they had made the golden calf (see Exodus 33:3). After the tabernacle was built, Moses no longer needed his temporary tent, and the term tent of meeting began to be applied to the tabernacle. (

    #2 The Impact of King David on Worship

    With the anointing of David as King of Israel (1025 BCE), a new era was born. David was a man after God’s own heart (1 Samuel 13:14) who set forth principles, guidelines and patterns of worship according to the directions he received from the Lord. David rescued the Ark of the Covenant from captivity (2 Samuel 5-6) and brought it to Jerusalem, which was the last fortified town that finally fell to the army of David. In this fashion, David, on receiving instructions from the Lord, began to reform the Aronide priesthood and to prepare for building a permanent “house of the Lord” (the Temple) in Jerusalem.

    The return of the Ark resulted in great rejoicing. There was food, singing, instruments playing, sacrifices to God (2 Samuel 6:1-19) and dancing. David danced with all his might before the Lord (2 Samuel 6:14-15). He was so free in his dance that he embarrassed his wife (2 Samuel 6:16). He did not care–he was led by the Spirit to worship God with abandonment. The Ark was placed in a tent (tabernacle) and David appointed skilled musicians and leaders to worship around the Ark day and night. Thus David not only offered the animal sacrifices (2 Samuel 6: 13, 17-18) preferred by the official priests, he authorized musical instruments, singing, chanting, shouting, lifting of hands, clapping of hands, processions and dancing as entirely pleasing to the Lord as well.

    Davidic worship was often prophetic (1 Chronicles 25:1; Psalms 46:10, 50:7, 85:8 ), and the singing of new songs was encouraged (Psalms 33:3, 96:1, 149:1). Corporate worship within the tabernacle focused not only on joyfully lifting up the name of Yahweh (Psalm 34:3; 57:5), giving thanks (Psalm 30:4; 35:18), repentance and recommitment (Psalm 26:2; 139:23 ), but also on inviting the manifest presence of the Most High (1 Kings 8:11; Chronicles 5:14; Psalms 50:2). (

    How did David get away with all these innovations into the domain reserved for priests? Well, to begin with, one must remember that the Israelites were not accustomed to having “kings” and that Yahweh was very reluctant to grant them the right to do so (1 Samuel 8:4-18, Judges 8:23, Deuteronomy 17:14-20). The first king, Saul, was a bitter failure. David, on the other hand, was an overwhelming success. As such, the Israelites tolerated his innovations because David had brought into play a period of peace and security that had been hitherto unknown to them. The legends that surrounded David later made their way into the official texts and established his reign as the unabashed “Camelot period” of Israelite history.

    Even in his seduction of Bathsheba and his murderous treachery towards her husband, the story is told in such a way that we learn how he sinned audaciously yet repented mightily when accused by the prophet Nathan. Then he bitterly lamented the death of his son as the punishment for his crime (2 Samuel 12:15-18). Instead of being dismissed as in the case of Saul, even the failure of David secured for him his first place in the ranks of those who have come to known as the faithful servants of the Lord.

    #3 Worship by Kings Challenged

    Only during the reign of King Uzziah (783–742 BCE) do we find the first instance whereby the high priest, Azariah, and eighty other priests publicly confronted the king for acting like a priest: “It is not for you, Uzziah, to burn incense to the LORD, but for the priests, the sons of Aaron who are consecrated to burn incense. Get out of the sanctuary . . .” (2 Chr 26:18). At this, the king defies the priests, but then “leprosy broke out on his forehead . . . and he himself hastened to get out [of the Temple] because the LORD had smitten him” (2 Chr 26:19-20). This demonstrates that, with time, not even the king could presuppose that he had the right to act like a priest. It is also a small step toward the epoch wherein the priests would be charged with instructing and judging kings, and, in due course, able to replace the kings entirely and to rule Israel as they saw fit.

    Need to know more? Try this:
    The Shaping Of Jewish History: A Radical New Interpretation.
    by Ellis Rivkin

    So, Wes, what do you make of my reply?

  10. Hi. If at all humanly possible, can you PLEASE tell me what these abbreviations are for as used in the Lexicon, for non-biblical writings (from Walter Bauer’s), as I’m doing a search on the usage of the Greek word ‘sunerchomai’ as it relates to the relations between a man and a woman.

    X, Mem., Diod. Ps. Apollod, Philo, Virt, Jos, Ant.
    I can’t read Greek so I cannot look up what texts these abbreviations are for. I only know they are non-biblical text, which is what I’m needing to look into, so I can say I have a ‘thorough grasp’ on how the word sunerchomai was used back then. Thanks. ?head.


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  16. Will our resurrected bodies express gender and sexuality? If so, how? Will we continue to image God as ‘male and female’? Or will we all be male in the image of Christ? Or perhaps even female in relation to our Bridegroom? In short, what will our embodiment express in terms of gender/sexuality?

  17. I appreciate the suggestion that we might “all be female in relation to our Bridegroom.” Neat.

    Thomas Aquinas (d. 1275) thought that each of us would retain the same sexual orientation in the resurrection since we had gained our salvation as such within a particular body. But how about those who were never very comfortable in their given bodies? This question never occurred to St. Thomas.

    Some authors cite this text of Jesus by way of demonstrating that the resurrected bodies will not have sensual/sexual functions: “They neither marry nor are given in marriage”

    Jesus uses these words is contending with the Sadducees regarding the expectation of the general resurrection of the dead in the Last Days. Jesus upholds the resurrection saying:

    You know neither the scriptures nor the power of God. For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven (Matt 22:30, Mark 12:25, Luke 20:35f).

    Some authors have used this text to argue that Jesus himself understood his celibacy as an anticipation of the world to come where no one will be married.

    As in the case above, the intent of Jesus must be gathered from considering his words in their original context. Here, one finds Sadducees “saying there is no resurrection” (Matt 22:23 and par.) based on the hypothetical case of seven brothers who, by Jewish tradition, had a serial marriage with a single women (Matt 22:24-26 following Deut 25:5) in the attempt to raise up offspring. On the basis of this extreme case, the Sadducees posed the dilemma: “At the resurrection, then, whose wife of the seven will she be? For all of them had married her” (Matt 22:27). The implied logic of this case is that God would face an impossible situation at the final resurrections since each of the seven brothers had the right to claim the women as his wife.

    The clever responder might suggest that each husband might have the women one day a week. Each day, however, six of the brothers would be deprived of their wife‑-a condition hardly acceptable in the kingdom of God. Or, again, maybe God, at the general resurrection, would clone the woman such that each brother would have her as his full-time wife. The bible, however, says nothing of cloning and one has no reason to believe that God anticipates cloning by way of solving certain problems.

    Could God then take six women who never married and to transform their appearance such that they looked like the women that was married to the seven brothers? And so it goes. . . . Endless bad proposals and the final sense that maybe, in view of real cases like this, there will not be a resurrection.

    So what does Jesus propose by way of unraveling this tale? The logic of Jesus’ rebuttal is that the Sadducees underestimate “the power of God” (Matt 22:29) when they imagine that the world to come will be organized according to the social codes found in the Hebrew Scriptures. More to the point, Jesus postulates that, in the world to come, there will be “no marriage” but all will live in community “like the angels” (Matt 22:30).[12] Living “like the angels” does not mean that Jesus envisions that human existence will involve disembodied spirits. Such a proposition would deny the bodily resurrection of the dead and forfeit the argument to the Sadducees. Rather, the argument is simply that the angels live quite well in community without pairing off as marriage partners and that, in the future, humans will get on quite well doing the same.

    This argument says absolutely nothing either favorable or unfavorable about resurrected bodies being asexual or incapable of sexually functioning.[13] Thomas Aquinas would not favor such a situation since it would mean that resurrected bodies would be impaired rather than perfected.

    Speaking for myself, I can only observe that sexuality offers a glorious capacity to enjoy and to bond with another human being and that our resurrected bodies would assuredly have refined sensual, sexual, and social powers. In this regard, our situation as humans is better for us and there is little room to imagine that humans will ever become angels.

    Surely, however, there will be no room for using sexuality as a tool of repression or for the subjugation of another human being. Perhaps this is where Jesus would have again favored the practice of denying marriage in the world to come because, in his experience, the bond of marriage often meant that a husband exerted a cripling domination over his wife.

    When all is said and done, however, we must all allow that “eye has not seen and ear has not heard what God has in store for those who love him.”


  18. I have been wresting with questions for many years .. hope you can help clarify it for me.

    When I was 9 years old, I attended Bible School and church on Sundays with my neighbors. My parents were good people, but did not attend church. My neighbors invited my parents to attend service with us one Sunday night.

    At the conclusion of the service, when people were walking to the altar to receive Jesus as their Lord and Savior, I was greatly compelled to go. But as I rose to walk to the front of the church, my mother caught my arm and returned me to my seat.

    As soon as I could, I rushed outside to our car where I proceeded to cry my heart out. Hindsight, I wonder if I was saved during that moment .. not because of a denied opportunity but because that was my moment of salvation?

    Unfortunately, my parents moved and as a teenager, I fell into a bad crowd. I did some things that I am ashamed of, and I have prayed many times for forgiveness.

    My question(s): Was I saved or not that fateful Sunday night? And if I was, did I wreck it by my bad behavior as a teenager?

    The past 11 years of my life (I’m now 65) have been more than painful and I wonder if this is my punishment for turning away from God all those years ago. I’m a real mess. Sorry for the length of this letter but appreciate your response, if you have the time. Thank you

  19. Dear Val,

    Yes, at that moment when you were impelled to go forward to proclaim your salvation, the Holy Spirit had gripped your soul. No matter that your mother stopped you. You responded by receiving the “baptism of desire” and your tears outside washed your soul clean. . . .

    But God did not stop there. Salvation is not a one-time affair. The deeds you did and the bad conscience that followed, was this not also the grace of salvation erupting? And the multiple acts of repentance, was this not the Lord tugging at your heart and welcoming you home?

    So, at 65, you seem ready to have your whole life examined and turned inside out. I would suggest you pray over this. Maybe consider a confession of your entire life that includes a recounting of your sins and your acts of grace to the Lord in the presence of a close spiritual friend or to an ordained minister. . . .


  20. How does one get in touch with Dr. Milavec?
    I am trying to locate a copy of the work listed below the signature. I have tried to find the journal but with no success. I would appreciate your assistance.
    Title: Is God arbitrary and sadistic: Anselm’s atonement theory reconsidered
    Author: Milavec, Aaron
    Source: Schola
    Date: 1981-01-01
    Series or Collection Title:
    Volume: 4
    Start Page: 45-94

    Database: ATLA Religion Database with ATLASerials
    Item Number: ATLA0000795289

    All email are dead end links.
    Please help.

    Dr. Craig Kubic

    Note: PDF version =

  21. I have a historical-ish question. When Christ was crucified, two theives were crucified next to him. One was repentant, and Christ said “Today you will be with me in Heaven.” Only, He didn’t go to Heaven straight away, right? He spent 3 days in his tomb and 40 days on Earth after His resurrection. So, where was the thief this whole time? Was he in hell for all that time? Or did he get into heaven before even Christ did? I know this is a silly question, but it’s been nagging at me.

  22. Dear Audrey,

    Excellent question! If you examine the text closely, the thief was not repentant respecting his thievery. Rather, he says, in effect, “We are getting what we deserve, but this guy is innocent of the charges (insurrection) against him.”

    Furthermore, Luke’s Gospel does not imagine that those who die go immediately to heaven or hell. Rather, body and soul die together and, only at the resurrection of the dead, do those in the grave rise to new life. Then, those like the “good thief” will enter [the Garden of] Paradise. Jesus never says anything about “going to heaven.”

    From the vantage point of the thief, however, he dies at one moment and, in the next moment, he experiences being raised from the dead. Hence, from his personal vantage point, it all happens “today.”

    When we die, it will be the same for us. After out death, we have no experience of anything and no experience of time. When God raises us up on the Last Day, we will become alive again. It will be like awakening from a sound sleep. Whether we “sleep” 9 hours or 9 days or 9 years or 900 years make little difference. The thief that was crucified with Jesus is still “asleep.” When God raises him from the dead, that same God will be raising us from the dead as well.

    Notice also that Jesus gets taken up into Heaven because God has future plans for him. What plans? God intend to send Jesus back to earth as the Messiah during the Last Days. In the Jewish tradition, the prophet Elijah was taken alive into Heaven and it was Elijah (not Jesus) who was preserved in Heaven for his return to herald the Last Days. See the final lines of the books of the prophets to confirm this.

    Jesus believed that God was getting ready to come to earth to bring about the Kingdom of justice and peace. This is why Jesus prayed, “Your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is [already being accomplished] in heaven.” Thus, for Jesus, God is preparing to come to us; hence, it makes no sense to want to go to Heaven for he won’t be there for very long. See Rev 21:1-14 where God comes down from Heaven and takes his place on the throne of the new Jerusalem, and he then he proceeds to “wipe away every tear from their eyes and death shall be no more.” The Good News is that God is getting ready to come to earth and to gather the elect to where he is and then to heal their pain and to live with them in Paradise on earth until the end of time.

    So, in effect, your puzzlement opened up a whole host of associated questions. “This day you will be with me in Paradise” is thus fulfilled in ways that you might not have expected.


    Further Reading:

    The Return of Elijah from Heaven Prophecy by Joel Smith

    Evolution of the Soul and Immortality in Christian Thought by Rt. Rev. N.T. Wright [good summary]

  23. Is there ever an instance in the Bible where a person makes a prayer request that God really does not want to honor, but the person beseeches God and God grudgingly answers what is asked for?

  24. Dear Jennifer,

    The classic case here is that of Abraham:

    When God informed Abraham of his plan to destroy Sodom and Gomorrah, Abraham challenged him. When challenged, God did not pull rank and dismiss out of hand Abraham’s challenge. Rather, he saw the merit of Abraham’s observation. Thus God himself changed his mind and conceded that Abraham had made his point.

    Then, Abraham, seeing that God acknowledged that his plan was flawed, continued to press his advantage by openly bargaining with God: “Suppose there are forty . . . ; suppose there are twenty . . . ; suppose there are ten.”

    At ten, Abraham went no further because he calculated that, with Lot and his family, there would surely be ten righteous. Abraham thus felt assured that God would not allow the innocent to suffer with the guilty.

    But it was not to be.

    When the whole town surrounded Lot’s house and demanded that the two angels be surrendered to them for sexual abuse, the required ten righteous was not achieved. Nonetheless, one should take notice that Lot, when his own sons-in-law refused to seek refuge from the wrath that was to come, did openly bargain with the two avenging angels to save the small town of Zoar. One should also take notice that “God remembered Abraham, and sent Lot [his wife and his two daughters] out of the midst of the overthrow” (Gen 19:29).

    This indicates that Abraham, even while he was not able to avert the disaster entirely, does nonetheless get God to further reduce the collateral damage. As a result of this, God blessed Abraham precisely because he challenged and enlarged the justice of God. He did not meekly accept God’s judgment. Rather, he found fault with God, and, as a result, God changed his plans accordingly.

    Another classical case is that of David. One day, from the height of his palace, he watches as Bathsheba, wife of Uriah, the chief among his loyal warriors, bathing on her rooftop. Prompted by his lust and his kingly power, he calls her to his palace and gets her pregnant. When he can’t blame her pregnancy on her husband, he arranges to have her husband killed in battle.

    Now, outwardly, there is no man to call the king into account, but inwardly David knows he is corrupt.

    God is waiting for him to confess his failings. So one day God sends Nathan the prophet who tells David the simple story of a poor man being cheated by a rich man out of the little ewe lamb that he loves. Enraged, David blurts, “That man deserves to die.”

    Nathan then points his finger directly at the corrupt King and says with an even voice, “You are that man,” and, in so doing, he pronounces the king’s judgment against him. This shocks David out his denial and cover-up.

    Then David said to Nathan, “I have sinned (hātā�) against the LORD.” [Notice that David in this setting is not aware that he has sinned against Bathsheba as well.]

    Nathan replied, “The LORD has taken away [forgiven] your sin (hattā�t). You are not going to die [as you yourself have indicated]. But because by doing this you have made the enemies of the LORD show utter contempt [for the Law?], the son born to you will die.” (2 Samuel 12:13-14)

    The Lord punishes David for the scandal he caused and seemingly not for his adultery or his murder. And for this scandal, the child conceived unlawfully dies. So Nathan the prophet and many others as well who know the truth come to recognize that God does not love David “his son” foolishly by giving him full pardon for all his sins. But God does mercifully reduce the sentence. Meanwhile God ignores David’s prayer that his child be spared.

    Many scholars regard Ps 45 as David’s prayer to be washed clean of his sin, i.e., to be pardoned without any painful consequences. But such a policy would be a fatal blow to God’s justice–for even David the king who rules Israel in the name of God must be seen to submit to the Lord’s rule.

    The prophets Jonah and Elijah both petition God to kill them during their difficult circumstances. God’s answer was “no” because it was not a fitting prayer. God instead provides nourishment, safety and help for them–the very things that they should have been asking for in the first place.

    Jesus asked God to take the cup of suffering from him during his prayers in the Garden of Gethsemane, but as he prolonged his prayer, he realized that it was God’s will for him to drink of that cup, and he submitted to God’s will. Paul the Apostle also petitioned God three times to remove the thorn in his flesh and God said “no”. “My grace shall be sufficient for you.” In such instances, the one praying learns that the sheer repetition of prayers does not insure the response called for. Rather, through suffering, one often learns to realign one’s prayers.

    There are many other instances of unanswered and of partially answered prayers in the bible. These cases give us a broad set of variations: In the case of Abraham, God altered his plans so as to avoid killing the innocent with the guilty. In the case of David, the concealed crime was brought to the attention of the king. His honest admission of guilt lessened his sentence. God also waited patiently for David’s conversion. In the case of Jonah and Elijah, unworthy prayers were entirely ignored and God came forward with the kind of help that they should have been seeking all along. In the final case of Jesus and Paul, sustained prayer led to altering the mindset of the one praying.

    In the end, none of these instances demonstrates exactly that “the person beseeches God and God grudgingly answers what is asked for.” The case of Abraham gets closest to this, but perhaps not in the way you expected.

    So I have a question: “Do prayers in the bible serve to change God’s mind?” If not, is this a modern perception that has no warrant in the bible?


  25. If there is one thing that has always annoyed me, it’s that all the questions that people seem to ask Christians and Christianity can be answered really easily on the basis that they are asking the wrong thing; for example, “Why does God send people to Hell?” when what they should ask first is “Does God send people to Hell?”
    Hence, I will TRY to ask a question without any loopholes…
    A few people I’ve met have talked about a place where people go when they die where they will be judged by God as to whether they go to heaven or hell. If such a place exists, is it possible for a person to be sent back to our earth instead, according to Christian beliefs?

  26. Dear Samuel,

    The question of heaven and hell is the question as to whether there will be a final justice to bring a closure on human history. I don’t have enough room to answer this question here.

    The first question is whether Jesus and his disciples believed in an immortal soul. Most informed biblical scholars would say “No, they did not.”

    Your suggestion of “sent back to earth” point in the direction of “the resurrection of the dead.” And this assuredly was the expectation of Jesus and his disciples.


    PS: For a full treatment, go to

  27. Hi there,

    I hope you are doing great.

    I wanted to ask about the significance of fractions in the bible — to be specific the significance and meaning of 1/2. I would deeply appreciate it if you could help me with my question as full numbers definitions are often given but fractions are often not. How does one interpret the meaning of fractions (is there a technique?) and how does one learn to interpret the deeper meaning and use of numbers in the bible?

    Thank you very much for giving us this forum to ask a Theologian!
    Have a blessed Sunday tomorrow (it’s still Saturday dunno what it is there)

  28. What are God’s directives–commands, instructions, advice–regarding tattoos? I recently found out I am Irish-Viking, and I want to honor my heritage. I also don’t want to offend God. So, head and Heart if you would, please.

  29. I’ve noticed a lot of churches around the country in the summer are using movies as the basis for the days sermons. It’s commonly called, “At the Movies” in July when the senior pastor leaves for vacation. While most sermons in America are topical vs. expository in nature this may/many not be an issue for seasoned Christians who are not looking for milk. I am concerned about this trend. I don’t think church should be entertainment. I never saw Jesus entertaining those who listened to him. Rather, he challenged them. At the Movies claims that God communicates in all media. Perhaps. It is entertaining at some level to have modern movies clips in church worship but it feels to this Christian it would be better suited for youth or college groups and led by the youth pastor to allow for group interaction/questions/comments etc. QUESTION: Is a month of movie clips and popcorn how Paul would have preached had he that technology? What say you?

    I don’t want to come across as judgmental. I have not made a big deal about this with my church leadership who has adopted this method of preaching each summer.

  30. Philip, You analyze the situation quite competently. I did a movie research article in 2014=Aronofsky’s

    “Noah” Is More Sophisticated Than You Might Think
    Prof. Aaron Milavec [4131 words] No doubt, one of the most talked about films so far this year is
    Darren Aronofsky’s “Noah.”

    This film has gotten its share of rave reviews, though there are those who have major problems with it. So I went out to view “Noah” last night. I discovered that Noah and his family display a remarkable respect for the natural environment and for the other creatures. This was an unexpected surprise for me. So I began to read the reviewers

    Click here to read the entire review=

  31. Dear Irish-Viking Bart,

    Head: There is nothing in the entire bible about tattoos. Hence, be free and resourceful in deciding this for yourself after getting some earthly advice from close friends.

    Heart: The Love of my Life is 24% covered with tattoos. I spend hours admiring, enjoying, and interpreting her chosen images. When she is entirely naked, she is still 24% clothed. Amazing.

    Peace and joy,

  32. Dear Vimbainashe,

    OK, I’ve learned differential equations and calculus. Nothing about this in the entire bible. Why so? Our God is not a God of confusion. He knows his differential equations and calculus, but it would just sow confusion if he put any of this higher math into the bible.

    Get my drift?

    So what would you expect to find about “whole numbers” and “fractions” in the bible?


  33. Would Jesus Christ still be worthy to be part of the Trinity even if he married Mary Magdalene and had children with her? Would his mission be destroyed amidst the marriage (which I do not believe)?
    Thank you.

  34. My mother was an alcoholic well into my twenties. She left us for 3 or 4 days at a time, over and over again. My father was mentally unstable. Me and my two sisters were neglected and abused, mostly emotionally, but sometimes beaten for slight reasons. My father hid the food from us, so we often went hungry. He suffered from migraines, and sat in the dark for hours on end with a cold rag on his head. Nobody dared disturb him.

    I tried whatever I could think of to heal our family and keep the peace, doing impressions, comedy skits, making us all laugh, to ease the unbearable tension our dysfunction created.

    I was baptized Catholic as a baby, went to church and Sunday school, took Mass. But, I began stealing at a young age, and have always been an anti-authoritarian rebel. I started smoking young. I tried alcohol, but it made me ill. My older sister’s first husband introduced me to marijuana, which I have used most of my life. I had an 8-month bout with cocaine. I have always considered myself a broken person emotionally; this idea was forever sealed when my father abandoned us when I was 15. All of my miserable attempts to hold the family together lie in ruins. We have been in poverty ever since.

    I believe in Jesus Christ, as God, as Savior, as Lord of Lords. But, I believe mostly with my head, as my heart is a cold dead diseased black thing, and has been from my youth. I prayed to God to give me a new heart, like it says in the Bible when one becomes a Christian…but maybe God can’t or won’t work with something that is not even there at all? I am a terrible Christian: I don’t go to church, I don’t want fellowship, I backslide continuously.

    I attempted suicide once in my twenties. I have thought about suicide nearly every day of my miserable existence. I feel as if I am somehow a cosmic mistake that has somehow slipped through the cracks of God’s plan.

    My question is: Would it be possible to make it into Heaven if I killed myself to stop the lifetime of pain and suffering and brokenness I have only ever known in this miserable life?

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  36. Dear Patrick,

    Your life story has caused me to lose some sleep. How so?

    You had dreams for your family and for your father (the one who hid the food). It is no small feat to be a dreamer under these circumstances:

    I tried whatever I could think of to heal our family and keep the peace, doing impressions, comedy skits, making us all laugh, to ease the unbearable tension our dysfunction created.

    You judge yourself very harshly: ” I am a terrible Christian: I don’t go to church, I don’t want fellowship.” Well, guess what? Jesus was also most comfortable with your type.

    And you have wrestled with our Father in heaven. Here, again, you have had powerful dreams and you spent many years in pursuit of a solution:

    I prayed to God to give me a new heart, like it says in the Bible when one becomes a Christian…but maybe God can’t or won’t work with something that is not even there at all?

    [I myself suffered for many years following the death of my loving mother when I was eight. So, I know something of what it means to be broken and broken and never healed. If you push me, I’ll tell you this whole story some day. The details can be found here = ]

    So now to your main question: the consequences of suicide.

    Because I too have suffered for long periods, I will not go down the traditional road of proving that “murder” is a mortal sin that merits an eternity of punishments in hell fire. Suicide, alas, is a variety of murder; hence, your soul may be in great peril. No, I will not go down this traditional road.

    Our Father in heaven is, first and foremost, a loving father; hence, it would follow that it is impossible for him to think that every suicide would merit an eternity in hellfire.

    But the bible also confirms that this is just not so. Three cases:

    #1 The prophets Jonah and Elijah both petitioned God to kill them because they have come to think of themselves as miserable failures. God’s answer was “no” because God loved them even when they were failures. So God improved their situation somewhat–better nourishment and more safety–the very things that they should have been asking for in the first place.

    #2 Jesus asked his Father in heaven to take the cup of suffering from him during his prayers in the Garden of Gethsemane, but as he prolonged his prayer, he realized that it was God’s will for him to drink of that cup, and he submitted to God’s will. He stopped praying.

    Paul the Apostle also petitioned God three times to remove the thorn in his flesh and God said “no”. “My grace shall be sufficient for you.”

    In such instances, the one praying learns that the sheer repetition of prayers does not insure the response from God that was expected. Rather, through suffering, both Jesus and Paul learned to realign their prayers.

    #3 A modern case: Quadriplegic Philippe Pozzo di Borgo – known from the biographical film “The Intouchables” – says people need to take better care of each other. He may rely on a caregiver, but does everything he can to help others. “Weakness is not a handicap,” he says, “but a treasure that others still have to discover.

    [I can add here that I saw myself as handicapped by the pain of not having a mother when I was growing up. This vanished only when I finally realized that this “weakness” and “brokenness” were a “treasure” for me. They made me who I am today. So Philippe’s story is also part of my story and your story.]

    Philippe’s inbox is always full of emails from people asking him for advice. He’s become a symbolic figure, someone in whom others find strength. He replies to every email. I suggest that you might want to see the film, read his book, and write him an email. Go to
    So no one can tell you what to do with your brokenness. Maybe suicide is your best answer. And anyone who thinks that God has only one answer to this question demonstrates that s/he knows nothing of our Father. Consider, for example, the case of those WWII spies who had a cyanide capsule that would allow them to die before the torture administered by the Gestapo drove them to confess anything and everything. Avoid also anyone who is religious but cannot identify any long-term suffering in their life.

    Thus, I suggest that you might want to learn more about yourself and about the forms of suffering that you have endured and worked against at various times in your life.

    Maybe volunteer as a “visitor” at a Hospice. Learn from those who are dying what it is to be vulnerable and to fear death at the same time to welcome death. . . .

    Have you ever considered “physician assisted suicide” and what this might offer you. . . ? “If I’d asked Abdel to kill me, he would have done it,” Philippe Pozzo di Borgo affirms. Do you, as yet, know anyone who would do this for you?

    Who depends upon you in some way? Ask them what difference it would make if you totally withdrew into the arms of Death?

    Don’t hesitate to phone the National Suicide Hotline for help: 1-800-273-8255

    Very warmly and closer to you than you can imagine,

  37. Dear Galil,

    You pose an excellent question!

    “Would Jesus Christ still be worthy to be part of the Trinity even if he married Mary Magdalene and had children with her?”

    Absolutely, beyond any doubt, YES.

    In the creation narrative, God blessed them [the earthlings] and said, “Be fruitful and multiply” (Gen 1:28). This is the primal command and the first blessing upon parenthood. Thus, if Jesus had chosen to marry and to have children, he would be faithful to the Divine Creator.

    However, Jesus was not physically “fruitful,” nor did He “multiply,” indicating that Genesis 1:28 is not a command for every person to obey. In addition, Jesus said that celibacy is a personal choice, neither condemning it nor praising it as superior to marriage and childbearing (Matthew 19:12).

    The Apostle Paul took this one step further. He said that “he who marries his betrothed does well, and he who refrains from marriage will do even better” (1 Cor 7:38). Notice that Paul never presumes to use the example of Jesus as an endorsement for remaining celibate. Notice also that, according to Paul, “he who marries . . . does well”–namely, he fulfills Gen 1:28. Why then does Paul say, on his own authority, that
    “he who refrains from marriage will do even better”?

    #1 According to Paul’s understanding, the End Times were “close at hand.” This meant that preparing for God’s coming took priority over the blessing of populating the earth. Thus, Paul, by not having a family, had more time to attend to his missionary outreach.

    #2 Paul does make the argument that “the unmarried man is anxious about the affairs of the Lord, how to please the Lord; but the married man is anxious about the affairs of the world, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided (1 Cor 7:32-34). All in all, this is a simplistic argument. Sure, there are some wives that want their husbands to seek wealth, popularity, influence–things that are low on God’s agenda. But how about those wives who encourage their husbands to seek simplicity, generosity, humility–things that are high on God’s agenda? In this case, having such a wife is superior to not being married. Let’s face it: many unmarried men convince themselves that they are seeking the ways of the Lord whereas, in fact, they are self-centered and trouble-makers. Think of those Catholic priests who renounced marriage but then use their free time to seduce virgins or to sexually manipulate children. Hence, Paul did not think through his position. Celibacy can often be far inferior to marriage.

    #3 The reason for God’s command to “Be fruitful and multiply” was “to fill the earth” (Gen 1:28). It could be argued that when the earth is filled with humans that the command no longer applies. In fact, overpopulating the earth is assuredly a curse rather than a blessing. Is this what Jesus had in mind when he did not marry? Probably not. Yet, recently, Pope Francis has challenged Catholics who ignore “responsible parenthood” and try to “breed like rabbits” (

    If you want to dig deeper, consider the following:

    #1 Jesus on Sex and Marriage and Finding the Heart of God
    #2 When a Priest Falls in Love

  38. I’m a simple Christian man with whom I share a wonderful bond, Jesus. My question; I feel ashamed sometimes that God loves Man more than his Angels. Is there a Prayer that has already been printed that I can use in my Prayers to just Thank Them and Thank them all? Not just the Arch Angels but all the others too. ALL? Odd question but then I’m called Odd Todd.

  39. Hi, Todd,
    Angel of God
    When I was a young boy, my dear mother explained to me that God loved me. “How so?” I would ask her. “God has given you, my dear son, an angel whose mission is to guide and protect you.” I must admit that it was comforting to know that God took a personal interest in my welfare. Before going to sleep at night, my mother would turn the lights out and take me in her arms and together we would recite the standard prayer to our guardian angels: “Angel of God, my guardian near. . . .”
    Even if you were not raised by a Roman Catholic mother as I was, you might want to recite the Guardian Angel Prayer (attached to pic) at bedtime. Who knows? In so doing, you might discover for yourself the guardian angel that has touched your life with the transforming power of sacred healing. What a joy that would be!


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